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Midnight Thoughts

written by: bellasoņadora

Over the past couple of years I've grown a lot.
I've learned things I never would have thought of, some the easy way some the hard way. Time helps, always will, it teaches and fosters growth. In a way it helps explain "the world" and every essence of it.
The best thing I've learned probably is that you have to love it, it being a multitude of things. I've learned that you have to love yourself, and not in some sick narcissistic way - in a genuine way. I've learned that you have to "do you", put yourself as your number one that's the only way you'll ever really get to know, appreciate, and genuinely love yourself. You have to love life too. You only get one shot at it so why bundle yourself up with hate for it? Remember life = everything. I think a lot of people forget that. When you love yourself it makes it easier to enjoy and love life, kinda like a circle.
Try it - prove me wrong - I bet you can't.
Don't over analyze things, just take some things, well most things, as they are - not everything in life requires thought, most things don't I guess its part of human nature. Enjoy the little things and smile plenty, remember you really do only get one shot at all of this "live it up". Do things that make you happy, things that make you feel fulfilled.
Don't have regrets, meaning make everything a learning experience.
I've had plenty and I can't wait for the million more to come. Never give up, things change - constantly, so what isn't right now may be soon. Remember that. Follow your instincts, they're always right at some point. Don't be afraid to live and love without restraints, and let yourself go, just remember to have one foot on the ground cause you never know when you may need it. Laugh a lot its good for you - mentally and physically.
Love your friends, most of the time, and grow with or apart from them, its natural. Take the time to listen and think, it helps make you who you are and believe. Believe in yourself, in life, in love, in time, in thoughts, in healing, in people, just believe.
Believe in something, its like breathing.


Fri, Mar 23, 2007 at 1:46AM

Somehow you were always right...
So I might as well believe

Sun, Mar 25, 2007 at 12:23PM

I think that these are words to live by! If only I can learn to take your advise

Thu, Nov 15, 2007 at 12:56AM

"bellasonadora's guide to life" :) I like it, it made me smile.

Sat, Nov 17, 2007 at 10:20AM

A very true and very nice piece of writing. I felt you could easily have been writing about me and I guess thats what writing is all about isn't it? Well done.

Sun, Mar 16, 2008 at 9:34PM

Believing is like Breathing. Like when your reading a book and you get so absorbed in it---you forget and wonder aloud "Was I breathing?" when, of course you were. Sometimes you just forget what you believe in I think---but it's always there.

Mon, Mar 17, 2008 at 9:04PM

I read this a year ago when you first wrote it... and I just re-read it now. I love how you can just cut through all of the bullshit of life. The thing I love the best is that it's not just what you what.. how you want to see the world... but how you live. I envy you!

Wed, Mar 26, 2008 at 11:52PM

i like how you titled it midnight thoughts, because thats when i do most of my complex thinking, so i felt totally connected to what you mean. Our points of view vary a little but overall the way you captured me in your writing...i could easily see myself doing the same thing. hahah muy bien.

Thu, Mar 27, 2008 at 12:25AM

constructive criticisim for me is appreciated thank you.

Sun, Jul 6, 2008 at 11:29AM

nice thought process ... k :)

Sat, Jul 19, 2008 at 7:47AM

u r right. happiness is hidden in details.

Fri, Aug 22, 2008 at 6:36PM

Its true, I agree you have to love yourself before you can love anything or anyone else in life. And its only one chance in life you get. And through years you grow. Nice work.

Fri, Sep 5, 2008 at 1:09AM

i agree with life = everything. i say it all the time:)..your'e blessed with so much positivity..most of us have a lot to learn from u:) you jsut seem to sift out all the dirt and see everything great life has for us...and im sayin this outta experience but when ujust focus on good stuff, the bad doesnt even exist .its all bout how we percieve things.good work

Mon, Sep 29, 2008 at 3:23AM

its like a reminder of what ive always known.very inspirational.good job

Sun, Mar 1, 2009 at 10:08PM


Tue, Mar 3, 2009 at 2:05AM

I needed to read that right now. I'm on the brink of a huge decision and this really helped.

Sat, Aug 15, 2009 at 8:28PM

I'm so glad I read this. You are right I people do have to live life the fullest. but sometimes is hard and how you said dont regret It's just a learning experience. I love this...reading these kinds of things makes me smile...just wish I could actually follow them

Mon, Dec 14, 2009 at 5:17AM

I think u are one of the few people that actually know what they are talking about! Keep it up, the world needs more people like you! Hopefully we can all follow your advice!

Sat, Dec 26, 2009 at 6:48PM

I absolutely love this. You know what you are talking about and I think you should really keep up your writing and advice giving. This is amazing.

Sun, Jan 30, 2011 at 3:11AM


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